Uncomfortable Silence

There will always be the question if consistency helps keeping pace with our flow of life interests. It is suitable for some development, but it doesn't always follow up on the long run, and we might see that even though things are working for the deciders, beneath no one is balanced. Think about the overwritten differences between a manager and a leader, how do they matter really, as it's mainly the famous dichotomy for any novice. One can't live without the other however there is still only one who is able to learn from mistakes, with the other to figure out who that is. In the end, someone needs to be flexible and he needs to manage this flexibility as a real way to infuse responsibility in others. Yes, one may argue that consistency is the key, and it may be, on given circumstances but even so, it shall become hectic if prolongued and it may translate as voided of long term sense. As it is based on situational analysis and by using it and depriving human variables of any flexibility, you'll only have a way of getting out of any rational reconstruction. And you will eventually and unfortunatelly, get out. And when that is teaming up with the flow, loss of control is inevitable but yet hard to foresee, as there will be no factors to point this out. As an individual, you will battle with a sea of mutes and one person who speaks, but does not transmit. There may still be reciprocity and respect, or there may be none left, either way, it does not matter as this is the time when you need the vision and the original voice.

Everyone might be biased when it comes to fundamental psyhological traits because we are often seeing ourselves with a lack of outsider empathy. And then, aiming towards finding the comfort zone, and not only that, embedding ourselves in it, so hard that we wouldn't accept the fact even if feedback is received continously. If I would see such individual, I might ask, but they might not respond, as the group they've found comfort within may be numb or reluctant. I shall only see a mutual interchange of facts and meaningless emotions. There will be no trust established therefore no way of seeing the uncomfortable errors nor practicing due to them. Laissez-faire is inevitable.

You may be proactive even when all you think about is the reaction towards people around you. It's in human nature to react, as you would do to any morning sunrise but as you begin to love people, you would only stay reactive as long as they need you to. You might start passively, no sudden movements as there is no reason to disturb the balance. Your aim is to initiate or to recreate it. Mindsets shall be formed, problems will be provided with thoughts if not immediate answers, even when you may not have the clear vision. You will balance yourself and focus towards your first layer, the people you directly connect with. If balance is gained internally, motivation might still be reachable from outside. You can't force it into an individual due to natural resistance but you may have the ability to counteract fear, to find the value and stimulate patterns of human change acceptance. Conquering with love but also reasoning. You shall need responsibility but mostly, self-awareness.